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  • Historic Cottleville has always taken pride in simple, tasteful holiday decorations that reflect the city’s character. That’s why many residents were surprised to learn that Shady Mayor Stephen Thompson approved the purchase of an electronic Christmas tree for City Hall, reportedly costing thousands in taxpayer dollars.

    What makes this hard to ignore is the irony. During the previous administration, Shady Thompson and his allies loudly criticized spending, warning residents about waste and promising a more disciplined approach. Yet compared to today, the former mayor looks downright frugal, some might even say a miser.

    Instead of a traditional display that fit the historic setting, residents are now left with an expensive digital replacement that feels out of place and unnecessary. 

    Even more troubling is how the purchase was handled. The cost reportedly falls just under the threshold that would require approval from the Board of Aldermen, conveniently avoiding public discussion. No such approval shows up in any Board meeting minutes . Add in unanswered questions about vendor selection, and the transparency Thompson once promised starts to look more like campaign talk than governing reality. Did he obtain different quotes to ensure it doesn’t appear he is padding  someone’s pocket . 

    This isn’t really about a Christmas tree. It’s about a pattern. When leaders campaign against spending but govern like those they criticized or worse. Shady Stephen  is such a hypocrite.

    Holiday decorations should bring a community together. This one mostly highlights a contradiction.

  • What’s happening with the Mayor? Cottleville didn’t elect Stephen to run a permanent brainstorming session. In fact his own words were: “I am a candidate because our community deserves innovative ideas…” He insisted the previous administration lacked vision and claimed he was the one leader prepared to fix it.

    But now that he’s in office, that grand “vision” has shrunk into something embarrassingly small: asking the public what he should do.

    It’s a stunning reversal. The man who campaigned as a visionary is governing like someone who walked into City Hall and immediately realized he didn’t bring any vision with him. Instead of unveiling the solutions he claimed to have ready, he’s crowdsourcing them from the same residents he once told he already knew how to serve better.

    This disconnect isn’t just awkward  it’s revealing. Stephen’s campaign confidence now reads like empty salesmanship.

    He promised direction and he’s offered indecision. He promised innovation and we end up with a suggestion box. He promised a plan but here we are learning  he never had one.

    A mayor with genuine vision doesn’t scramble to invent one after the election.

    Stephen created this leadership vacuum. The same man who loudly criticized others for lacking a plan is now standing at the front of the room asking, “So… what should we do next year?” That’s not collaboration or  engagement. It’s a leader signaling he came unprepared for the job he wanted so badly.

    Shady Stephen has become little more than a polished logo, a few vague talking points, and a relentless focus on optics. He remains evasive about who he is, inconsistent about what he stands for, and so fixated on appearing relevant that he is drifting into ineffectiveness.

    He is a leader concerned more with managing his image than managing his city. 

  • Mayor Stephen Thompson’s ignorance keeps showing up in the very areas he thinks he knows best. What kind of leader asks the public to Venmo money straight to his personal account for a “nonprofit” city event? Thankfully, someone with real judgment and integrity stepped in to fix it before it went further.

    His lack of critical thinking showed again at the recent alderman meeting, where his weak leadership nearly pushed through a pointless moratorium until common sense prevailed. And now, toxicity is creeping into his administration’s leadership ranks. You never saw this in the past administration,  it was all business and no one took criticism personally.

    Meanwhile, Thompson is busy posting old photos of himself on social media, captioning them as if they were current moments. It makes you wonder if he’s even writing those posts himself  or if someone (or something) else is polishing his image for him.  Either way, it’s image over substance from a mayor who still needs training wheels for the job.

    Word is spreading through the Cottleville Trails subdivision that maybe, just maybe voting for “Shady Stephen “ wasn’t the masterstroke some hope it would be . Expect plenty of polite smiles and strategic spin as he muddles through the year without offering much in the way of leadership . Which naturally makes sense if you pretend his two years as alderman and that mysterious PhD count for nothing . 

    And now it’s clear that Holt, Kreckler, and Thompson have shown their true colors , anti-business, anti-development, and anti-Cottlevillian. Their actions don’t reflect the values of a community that thrives on progress, partnership, and pride.  Together, this trio is on track to undermine the progress and reputation Cottleville has worked so hard to build. 

  • Nonprofit claims questioned as vendor fees routed to personal accounts, with residents calling it another display of incompetence.

    Documents circulating in Cottleville are raising serious questions about how funds for the upcoming “Cottleville Christkindl Market” are being collected and managed and whether the event is being misrepresented to the public.

    A flyer promoting the market proclaims it to be a nonprofit event and invites vendors to pay a $50 fee. But instead of directing money to a registered organization, the vendor application presented as a City of Cottleville form and the flyer instructs participants to send payments straight to Mayor Stephen Thompson’s personal Venmo account or home mailing address. Inquiries are funneled to a Gmail account, not an official city or nonprofit channel, further blurring the line between personal business and public duty.

    Despite claims of nonprofit status, a review of available records and materials found no evidence that the Christkindl Market is registered as a nonprofit entity in Missouri or with the IRS. That absence of documentation raises red flags about oversight, accountability, and whether the event has any legitimate charitable structure at all.

    Local businesses, according to accounts circulating in the community, have already refused to sponsor the market, citing the lack of a nonprofit entity. The scheduling of the market on the same day as long-standing community events including the Salvation Army Red Kettle kickoff and St. Joseph’s Bazaar has only deepened frustration, with some viewing the move as a reckless disregard for collaboration and community trust.

    The optics are troubling. City branded paperwork is paired with private payment channels. A personal website and a Gmail address are being used in place of official city resources. To many observers, this is not just sloppy management but either incompetence or outright ignorance of the codes and standards that govern nonprofit fundraising and public office. The mayor, yet again, has shown his absolute incompetence in running an event, leaving residents questioning his ability to separate personal interests from his public responsibilities.

    Until transparency is provided, vendors and sponsors remain in the dark about where their money is going and Cottleville residents are left wondering why their Mayor is running  a “nonprofit” operation that looks anything but.

  • Shady Mayor Stephen Thompson is hijacking a city salary study, intended to ensure fair pay for underpaid police and staff and twisting it into an excuse to line his own pockets and pad the board’s. That’s brazen, self-serving, and flat-out wrong.

    Cottleville’s mayor and aldermen have always served in part-time roles. The job was never meant to be a paycheck. The previous mayor respected that tradition and never dared to chase personal raises. Thompson, on the other hand, is shredding that precedent for his own gain.

    And the timing reeks. It wasn’t long ago that lawsuit transcripts revealed Thompson’s financial strains. Now, suddenly, he’s maneuvering for a raise, pretending it’s about everyone when it’s really about himself. That’s not leadership; it’s a con.

    Meanwhile, police officers and city staff, the ones who actually keep Cottleville safe and running are left to wonder if their promised raises will be diluted by this scheme. To make matters worse, Thompson refuses to come clean about what other pay hikes he’s plotting for next year, leaving taxpayers in the dark.

    This is opportunism, plain and simple. If Thompson has any interest in restoring trust, he should slam the door on raises for himself and the board immediately and put every dime toward those who serve this city full time. Until then, his actions speak louder than words: this isn’t about fairness, it’s about feeding his own wallet.

    And let’s be clear: you heard it here from the very beginning , Thompson is not who he appears to be. His ties with Saint Peters, his background cloaked in secrecy, his obsession with keeping up a polished image through photo ops, and his glaring hypocrisy have been there all along.  This latest stunt only confirms the truth: Stephen Thompson puts Stephen Thompson first. Always.

  • When it comes to real accomplishments that make a difference in the lives of Cottleville residents, Mayor Stephen Thompson has little to show. For all his self-promotion and image-building, the record speaks for itself: he has failed to deliver tangible improvements for the community while repeatedly inflating or fabricating his own role in the city’s progress.

    Time and again, Thompson has shown a troubling pattern of dishonesty. In court, under oath, he shifted stories and was ultimately caught in lies, losing a lawsuit in the process. That lack of integrity bleeds into his role as mayor. He has tried to take credit for Cottleville’s designation as a Purple Heart City, despite the fact that he wasn’t part of the process at all. Worse, he has implied to residents that the previous administration was corrupt, when there is no evidence of corruption, only his willingness to distort the truth to cast himself as a savior.

    And remember that letter to voters where candidate Stephen Thompson promised innovative ideas and a clear vision for Cottleville if elected? Where are those ideas? He has none. Instead, he plans on spending $110,000 of taxpayer funds on a planning consultant, money that is coming  from the balanced budget the prior administration built, to come up with a “vision” he should have had from the start. Did he just lie to all of us to win votes? 

    So what exactly has Thompson accomplished as mayor? Not new infrastructure, not meaningful improvements in services, not a clear plan for growth, nothing that has changed lives for the better. Instead, he has accomplished only one thing: protecting his image at all costs. Every decision, every public comment, every photo op seems designed to serve himself rather than Cottleville. He talks like a leader but delivers nothing of substance.

    For a city that deserves vision and integrity, Stephen Thompson has offered neither. His leadership amounts to a hollow performance, built on borrowed credit, false claims, and self-interest. The truth is unavoidable: Mayor Stephen Thompson has accomplished nothing so far for the people of Cottleville and everything for himself.  Who did you vote for?

  • Let’s stop calling it “hypocrisy”  that’s too generous.

    What Mayor Thompson pulled during his campaign looks a lot like deliberate misinformation than an innocent change of heart.

    Thompson went hard on the attack, accusing the previous administration of being shady, undemocratic, and secretive. Remember all the outrage over “suspending the rules” to fast-track votes? He made it sound like some backroom scheme, something no honest official would ever do. And the closed-door executive sessions? He and Candice from The Forum  practically swore they were the smoking gun of corruption.

    Now fast forward to today  and guess what? He’s doing the exact same things.

    At the June 18th BOA meeting, all four aldermen, under his leadership, voted to suspend the rules to push a bill through in a single meeting.  Suddenly, the very tactic he claimed was “sneaky” is just business as usual. Don’t forget all those closed sessions he demonized? Turns out they’re not only legal, they’re necessary ,for personnel issues, legal strategy and advice , security and public safety  and real estate negotiations. Anyone with even a surface-level understanding of city governance knows this.

    So here’s the question: Did Thompson not know that? Or did he and his cohorts know exactly what they were doing when he misled the public?

    Because it’s looking more and more like the outrage wasn’t real. It was manufactured , a cheap political weapon used to stir up distrust and resentment against a local government that, by all accounts, was following the law and doing its job. He didn’t expose corruption,  he invented it.

    This isn’t just hypocrisy. It’s a calculated move to deceive voters, sow chaos, and seize power by painting a false picture of dysfunction. He promised transparency, but what he really delivered was manipulation.

    The citizens of Cottleville deserve to know: they weren’t voting for reform, they were actually voting for a rebrand of the same playbook he pretended to oppose. 

    Check page 5 of the last BOA June 18th meeting minutes. The truth’s in black and white. 

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  • Shady Stephen Thompson has been mayor of Cottleville since April 8. In that short time, he’s already shown us that the troubling behavior he displayed under oath during his civil trial wasn’t a one-time lapse in judgment , it was a preview.

    Before he ever stepped into office, Thompson stood in court and gave testimony that contradicted itself over and over. He couldn’t seem to explain what $11,000 he received from the Mannino family was actually for. First it was a personal loan. Then a lease deposit. Then a down payment for his new home. When pressed, he admitted he used the money to help close on the house , but still tried to downplay its significance. Even when the terms of the signed contract were read to him in court, he claimed he didn’t read the contract carefully or didn’t really understand it. This was despite having had the document for weeks and acknowledging that he speaks and reads English fluently. 

    That alone should have been disqualifying. But since becoming mayor, Shady Thompson has continued to operate with the same pattern of evasion, self-promotion, and disregard for basic principles of public service.

    Shortly after taking office, Thompson had a chance to show leadership when a vote in the city board ended in a tie. Rather than stepping up to cast the deciding vote , one of the most basic and expected duties of a mayor , he simply refused. No explanation, no decision. He dodged responsibility in the same way he dodged questions on the witness stand: by disappearing behind silence or technicalities.

    Meanwhile, he’s been busy trying to take credit for things he had nothing to do with. When a local development issue was resolved through an amendment, Thompson positioned himself as the hero of the moment, implying he played a major role. In reality, the amendment wasn’t his. He didn’t negotiate it. He didn’t write it. But that didn’t stop him from soaking up the credit , or the photo op.

    Then there’s how he runs his communications. Instead of managing his mayoral presence professionally, Thompson has outsourced his official Facebook page to student interns. These unpaid students are running the city’s digital messaging , a task that should be handled by trained, accountable personnel. It’s one thing to mentor young people; it’s another to hand them the public’s trust while using them as a digital PR machine for yourself.

    Even more troubling is Shady Stephen Thompson’s use of his personal email account to conduct mayoral business. Why does this matter?

    • It bypasses transparency laws like FOIA (Freedom of Information Act).
    • It exposes city communications to security risks.
    • And it hides public records from public access

    He encourages citizens to reach out to him directly through Gmail , bypassing official government systems.This isn’t just sloppy. It’s dangerous. Using personal email for city business opens the door to lost records, legal vulnerabilities, and a total lack of transparency. It’s exactly the kind of thing people with something to hide prefer , because it keeps their dealings in the dark.

    What all of this adds up to is a clear and troubling portrait: Thompson treats the mayor’s office the same way he treated the courtroom ,as a stage for self-preservation, not accountability. He wants the title, not the responsibility. He wants the credit, not the work. He wants the praise, not the pressure.

    He didn’t just lie in court. He built a habit out of avoiding the truth when it doesn’t serve him. And now, he’s carrying that habit straight into City Hall.

    Cottleville didn’t elect a public servant. It elected a spin artist with a poor memory, a stronger ego, and a very flexible relationship with the facts. Two months in, Thompson has shown us that nothing has changed. The only difference is that now, his behavior affects every resident in the city , not just the people he took money from and misled in court.

    The warning signs were there. He gave them to us under oath. And now, we’re seeing them play out in real time.

  • Shady Stephen must think the people of Cottleville have short memories.

    Just last month, when the Board of Aldermen deadlocked on whether to add a new pool to the Cottleville Trails development after residents showed up and spoke in full support ,Thompson had the power to break the tie. He didn’t. Shady Stephen  sat on his hands, let the motion fail, and walked away without saying a word. He turned his back on Cottleville Trails.

    Now, here we are at this month’s board meeting, and suddenly he’s parading around like he’s the one who got it done. He’s trying to slap his name on an amendment he had absolutely nothing to do with an amendment that only passed thanks to the previous administration and the actual work of Emily Colombatto and former Mayor Bob. They’re the ones who met with residents, worked with the developer, and made sure that second pool happened.

    Shady Stephen didn’t lift a finger until it came time to take credit.

    That’s not leadership. That’s political theater. Worse, it’s a slap in the face to every resident who showed up in good faith, and to the officials who did the real work while he watched from the sidelines.

    He had his chance to show up for the community. He didn’t. Now he’s trying to photoshop himself into the win like he was there all along.

    Cottleville deserves better than a mayor who hides during the fight and grabs the trophy at the end.

  • It was said there was a full house at the last board meeting  and for good reason. Residents of Cottleville Trails showed up, spoke out, and made one simple request: honor the commitments that had already been made. The neighborhood pool, promised for over a year and a half, had cleared every hurdle. Developers met the requirements. The city had the plan in hand. All that was left was final approval.

    So why, just mere weeks before, did Mayor Steven Manoj Thompson suddenly throw a wrench into the process?

    This wasn’t a misunderstanding or some minor oversight. The timing was too precise, too deliberate. Was it a power play? A misguided attempt to reassert authority? Whatever the motive, the consequences are clear: Thompson stalled a long-awaited project that residents had every right to expect. In the end, it didn’t stop progress it just exposed how far the mayor is willing to go to create unnecessary drama. If a lawsuit had come from this fiasco, it would’ve been entirely of his own making. Let’s call it what it is “Shady Steven” fell off his high horse.

    But Thompson’s meddling didn’t end there.

    Which brings me to last week when Shady Stephen proudly posted the when and where of the “No Kings” protest on his Facebook page, like it was the social event of the season. Now, why would a mayor endorse something like “No Kings”? Simple. He just can’t help himself. It’s in his nature to bend over backwards to please the loudest crowd in the room unless, of course, that crowd includes conservatives or anyone who dares to admire President Trump. It’s almost impressive how he manages to virtue-signal and alienate half the city in one post. At this point, hiding his woke agenda isn’t even on the agenda.

    And the concerns keep mounting.

    Reports have surfaced that Mayor Thompson has been using his personal email account to conduct official city business. That’s not just a red flag , it’s a flashing siren. In an era where public trust hinges on transparency, this behavior is deeply unethical. Using personal channels for public matters creates a convenient escape from scrutiny ,a digital backdoor for hiding inconvenient truths or shielding political allies. For someone who campaigned on openness and accountability, the hypocrisy is staggering.

    Let’s not forget the issue of public access. Residents have long asked for board meetings and work sessions to be live-streamed , and the equipment is already in place. So why the continued delay?

    The answer may be simple, and unsettling: Mayor Thompson doesn’t want to be seen at least not unfiltered. He doesn’t want a livestream showing him fumbling through procedures, asking confused questions, or losing control of the agenda. It’s not about policy. It’s about ego. And transparency is easy to promise until it threatens that ego.

    Cottleville deserves better. It deserves leadership that listens, not lectures. That follows through, not folds under pressure. That puts residents first, not personal image.

    Mayor Thompson ran on change. Unfortunately, the only thing he’s changed is how obvious it is when someone lets power go to their head.